I thought I was done talking about Gossip Girl but here I am again.

1) Dan is not perfect.

Just because I like Dan doesn’t mean I don’t think he has flaws. Now the issue Dan had with Blair was he didn’t think she loved him and he didn’t think she was with him 100%.

In episode 16, Dan wouldn’t have told Blair that he wanted to be more than friends if she hadn’t been all over him. He told her to go home and it wasn’t till she started trying to have him convince her that there was nothing between them that he laid his cards on the table. I don’t get how some people think he didn’t have a right to say that. After all the time he’d spent being there for her, what’s so wrong with him thinking about himself for a change? Plus, it didn’t even last long. He still was a friend to her by calling her when Serena needed her and when they met at the hospital, he didn’t say anything about romance.

In the end, he had his Chuck insecurities and at the end of ep 23, he gave Blair a chance to leave the relationship if it wasn’t what she wanted. In ep 24, her diary brought up the issue again and once again, he wanted to know her true feelings. Should he keep dating her if she’s in love with someone else? Should he keep dating her if she doesn’t have feelings for him? Why is this a bad thing for him to want to know? If Blair just told him that she was sure of her feelings for him but wasn’t quite ready to say ILY yet, then I think he would have been fine. He just needed to know where they stood. Then she lied to him about not being in love with Chuck. So why in the world would he be blamed for this?

I’ve read some people say that all he needed to do was back off and give it time. Perhaps I would agree if two minutes later she wasn’t on a rooftop telling Chuck that she’d been hiding her feelings for him all this time. So enough!

Why in the freaking world will someone tag a Suckandblah fanfic in our tag? I am not even getting what’s going on these days.

This must be the reason they are trying to stop it, right? Perhaps it’s true that Chair is an abusive relationship and they are worried the voices will be heard and the relationship won’t have a happy ending? Because if some fans started a petition about how Dan and Blair were an abusive relationship and made videos about it, I would laugh and not feel threatened. Why? Because that claim would be nonsensical. 

She is avoiding the issue. Dan has feelings too. How would you like to tell someone that you love them and they just dismiss it? Won’t that hurt? Why can’t Blair tell Dan exactly why she’s not ready to say ILY back? Maybe if she tells him then he will be more settled about their relationship. Instead he thinks her actions mean she doesn’t love him. She’s not doing anything to make him feel secure about her feelings for him at all. Someone having had bad relationships is no excuse for dumping all their problems on their current partner and not doing their share of keeping the relationship afloat. 

haragash:

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hazyshadeofjuly:

Diana Payne is Bart Bass.

She is not his mother, but his father.

Bart ‘died’ three years ago….. Diana appeared three years ago.

Diana donated the blood because she’s Chuck’s father.

Bart died because 

• His business was sucking and he had people coming after him.
• His marriage to Lily was also sucking
• He wanted to sleep with Nate.

But don’t you think it’ll be a bit much for Bart to be sexin Nate?

Sounds like the crap some people were believing about Chuck and Blair getting married on the 100th. It made no damn sense then and this reunion given what we’ve seen in the last few episodes won’t make any damn sense on the 14th.

The only time she picked Chuck this season was with Dan’s help. Every other time, she found an excuse to not pick him. So the minute she dates a kind man who loves and helps her find her strength she’s going to pick him?

She went to Dan when she needed someone to “take her there.”

She went to Dan when she needed to talk to someone about her pregnancy.

She went to Dan when she needed a place to stay and needed to figure out who to pick.

She went to Dan after her accident and she felt lost.

She went to Dan when her marriage went to hell and she needed an escape.

She went to Dan after Chuck declared his love to her.

So I’m supposed to believe that she’s suddenly going to go to Chuck after receiving all of Dan’s love and care?

They say: They were awesome, hilarious, fun but now they are boring.

But this time last year, they hated Dair. Funny how that works.

… because she’d slept with Jack Bass before. Oh my!